Top 10 Ways to Personalize Your Chicago Wedding

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By Cynthia Sally
Professional Makeup Artistwww.cynthiasally.com

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  1. Hand-painted Aisle Runner with names/Monogram – great photo opp!
  2. Gobo Lighting with names/monogram – your initials will look great on the dance floor.
  3. Wedding cake – top your wedding cake off with some personality!
  4. Hang decorated letters on the church doors of your initials – your guests will be impressed before they even get through the door.
  5. Have your unity candle or sand ceremony containers personalized – they will make a great keepsake for years to come!
  6. Put your monogram on all your stationery – invites, save the dates, programs, menus, etc.
  7. Caricatures or painting – display at your escort table to wow your guests.
  8. Favors – make a donation to your favorite charity or have a candy buffet with your favorite sweet treats.
  9. Centerpieces – ask your florist for non-traditional alternatives.
  10. Unique table numbers – use pictures of the couple or creative themes.
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Save the Dates

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Announce Your Wedding In Style

By Lindsay Sally of Big Day Boutique
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You’ve set your wedding date! Now it’s time to let all your family and friends know to mark their calendars. Save the Dates are the perfect way to share the news with your guests as well as let them see your wedding colors and style. Read more

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We’re So Hungry!

WE’RE SO HUNGRY
YOUR WEDDING MENU
By Patti Herioux
Event Planner, With Love
By the time you sit down for dinner at your wedding
reception you (and all of your guests) will be ravenous!  As you venture into the major decision
of what company to hire for your catering needs for food and beverage start by
thinking about what you would like the meal to say to your guests.  Consider the style you would like the
meal served in, the type of foods you would like to serve, the courses that
will be involved and any special details you would like to include (ethnic,
kosher, regional, etc.).  Certain
caterers may be better suited for your needs than others based off of what your
master plan is.
It holds true that your guests are likely to remember the
extremes… if your wedding food is ordinary, it won’t leave a huge impression
either way.  If it is bad your
guests will always remember yours as ‘that wedding where the food was
terrible!’  And if it’s exceptional,
they will likely remember your wedding as ‘the best food they’ve ever had at a
wedding.’   Make this decision wisely!
SERVICE STYLE
First, think of how you’d like the food you select served to
your guests.  You have two basic
options:
Buffet
Buffet style service is self-service and casual.  You will typically find buffets served
in one of two ways, an all-inclusive buffet with your courses served on one
long buffet table (your guests will fill their plates from beginning to end) or
food stations.  Food stations could
be as simple as having separate buffets for your salad, soup and entrée course
or as elaborate as serving distinctly different foods at each station (think
pasta stations, fajita station, mashed potato bar, sushi bar).  Your guests can circulate through the
stations filling their plates with whatever is appealing to them!
Plated
A plated dinner is more common and formal in the wedding
world.  Plated meals are served
individually as courses to each guest.
You may start with soup, go to salad, and end with your entrée.  The servers give each guest a prepared
plate delivered to their table.
COURSES
Second to how you will serve your guests, is what you
will serve your guests.  Cultural considerations
or personal preference may dictate the courses you opt to serve.  There are a variety of courses to
consider:
Hors d’oeuvre
Appetizer
Antipasto
Soup
Salad
Pasta
Intermezzo
Entrée
Dessert
EXTRAS
Your caterer will walk you through options outside of the
norm when it comes to what you can offer your guests.  Other than regular courses, there are other things you will
want to consider serving, such as a sweets buffet or late night snack.  Chicago themed late night snack buffets
are very popular and a delicious send off to your guests after a night of
drinking and dancing.  Chicago
style pizza, hot dogs, mini hamburgers… your options are many and scrumptious!
DRINKS
Your caterer will also serve as your bartending staff.  There are “courses” of alcohol to
consider that will go with your food selections.  Cocktail hour traditionally has a full service bar.  The bar may or may not stay open during
dinner.  Red and white wine would
typically be served during dinner, and is a nice touch if the bar will be
closed at that time.  You will also
want to consider champagne to go with the toasts your parents and honor
attendants will be giving.
If closed for dinner, the bar will reopen at the conclusion
of meal service and for the duration of the reception.  You will want to keep in mind all of your guests when selecting your alcohols and beverages.  An assortment of sodas, beers, hard alcohols, mixers and wines is a sure way to please the palate of all your
guests, young to old.
A tasting will be arranged as you get closer to your wedding
date for you to sample the foods your caterer will be serving.  From the tasting you will make your
final selections.  When you make
those selections think about what you like best and what is reflective of you
as couple, or go the crowd pleasing route and think about what will best serve
the masses.
You will be serving a myriad of people with different tastes
and preferences on your wedding day.
Take time and a little extra consideration to give them a meal that’s
something special.  Nobody will
walk away hungry on your big day!

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By Patti Herioux
Event Planner, With Love
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By the time you sit down for dinner at your wedding reception you (and all of your guests) will be ravenous!  As you venture into the major decision of what company to hire for your catering needs for food and beverage start by thinking about what you would like the meal to say to your guests. Read more

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Top 10 Wedding Flowers


by Kristen Janes of Kio Kreations, LLC

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I have compiled a list of the TOP 10 Wedding Flowers chosen by Chicago brides…and the winners are:

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Wedding Planning Advice from a Pro

By Barbara Martin
Director of Catering Sales

Holiday Inn Chicago Mart Plaza
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Congratulations! You’re engaged – you have the ring, and now you are starting the wedding planning process. First and foremost, enjoy the engagement! Being married lasts a lifetime – being a Fiancé happens once in your life and is a very special time of its own! The transition from girlfriend to fiancé to wife can be very stressful or you can have as much fun as possible to remember every step along the way.

I have been in the wedding business for over 20 years and have worked with hundreds of brides and grooms. If there is one important piece of advice that I can share with you is please enjoy the wedding planning process! Most of the couples I’ve worked with have done just that and have great memories of their special day. There are those few couples that every detail they plan causes them stress and they are unsure of what they want. These are the couples that wish their wedding day away and isn’t that a shame!

The planning process is a good time to realize that decisions that will be made are very similar to what marriage and life are all out – planning, budgeting, compromise, and dialog, not only with each other but with your parents, family and friends as well. The wedding is your day but is also a family celebration. If everyone gets along and has a good time along the way, your wedding is guaranteed to be a wonderful day! It doesn’t matter if you have your wedding at a hotel venue, a banquet hall, or a church basement – as long as it is your wedding with your own personal touches to make it your special day, it will be a day that you will remember for the rest of your life.

Take a deep breath and start planning..…..!!

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Wedding Budgeting – Top 10 Ways To Save Money

Top 10 Ways to Save Money
By Patti Herioux

With Love, Event Planner
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1. Opt for Off Peak!

The busiest season for the wedding market in Chicagoland is between April and November. By getting married in the winter months you may be able to take advantage of lower minimums or discounted package prices. If you can’t imagine a winter wedding, but you still want to save a few bucks, go for any day other than Saturday. The most common secondary days are Friday and Sunday.

2. DIY – If you are the slightest bit crafty, or have crafty bridesmaids, you can take on some Do-It-Yourself projects to save cash. Invitations, programs, place cards, etc. can all be part of a fun girls night!

3. Shop Online Shopping online is sometimes shunned by bridal vendors, but the world wide web gives you access to many reputable vendors that can save you big bucks! From dresses to toasting flutes!

4. Hire a Planner You are probably wondering how you save money by hiring yet another vendor. Wedding planners have connections and vendors they work with regularly that give their clients price breaks or incentives. Not only will a good planner save you money, but they will save you time!

5. Cut Your Guest List Between you, your fiancé and both sets of parents the guest list tends to grow out of control. Consider who is on that list and cut all that aren’t essential and important to you!

6. Book a Package Deal When you start to book your vendors consider all they have to offer. For instance, if a DJ also offers ambient lighting and a photo booth and you want all those items, book a combination package. A package price will usually merit a discount and hiring one company to come over three will definitely be more cost efficient.

7. Use In Season Flowers You may have dreams of delicate lily of the valley or fields of poppies, but consider the season. Ask your florist what flowers are most affordable for the time of year of your wedding and use those blooms. Keep the unusual or exotic to the bride’s bouquet only.

8. Forgo the Traditional Centerpiece Flowers are most common for centerpieces, but don’t limit yourself to just that option. Candles can be every bit as impactful at a fraction of the price. Another option would be to use your favors as centerpieces. Think outside the box!

9. Recycle, Reduce, Reuse Going back to the fact that you are probably one in your group of friends getting married, consider what you can pass along. Did your friend have a veil you loved? Also, contact your church and ask if there are any weddings on the same day as yours. Talk to the other bride about sharing church flowers.

10. Dance to a DJ When it comes to picking your reception entertainment, some options come with a heftier price tag than others. Hire a DJ to dance the night away to instead of a full band. A full band will not only cost more to hire, but also consider the price of vendor meals and gratuities for one verses many.

…and a Few Places to Spend Money

1. Photography Those pictures will hang on your walls for years to come. Spend a few extra dollars to get the quality you want. Your wedding album will be one of your most precious memories, choose your photographer wisely!

2. Entertainment Most brides and grooms will say it is a priority to have a fun party that goes all night. Your brother’s friend in the corner with his I-Pod and strobe light isn’t a good formula to start that fun. Spring for a knowledgeable and experienced wedding DJ or Band that can read the crowd and keep the party hoping.

If your guests leave early because the music is bad, you’ve wasted a lot of money on food and beverage.

3. Videography Many couples debate on if they should hire a videographer. When budget gets tight it is usually one of the first things to go. But think about this, in 40 years wouldn’t it be great to sit down with your kids and watch your wedding video?

4. Linens Picture this, your wedding reception with tables and tables of white, cotton linens. Now picture this, your wedding reception with tables of luscious satin, custom colored linens. Enough said.

5. Day of Coordinator You’ve spent an average of 250 hours planning your wedding, it’s time to let go and enjoy! By hiring a day of coordinator (or having a wedding planner) you will be able to live in every blissful moment of your wedding day, focused on your fiancé and the fun, while she runs the behind the scenes. With all the money you’ve spent, make sure you give yourself the opportunity to enjoy it!

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Show Me the Money


Wedding Budgeting

By Patti Herioux
With Love
, Event Planner

Before you take a hammer to your piggy bank take a moment to design a budget that will serve as your financial advisor in your wedding planning process. Be sure to be realistic about what you can afford. You can download a sample Chicago wedding budget here to give you an idea of what percentages to allocate to each area and how much you can expect to spend based on the average cost of a Chicago wedding.
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Chicago Wedding Vendors for Hire

We’ve Got You Covered
By Patti
Herioux
With Love
, Event Planner
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You’ve got a long list of people to hire to make your wedding day a success!

Throughout these newsletters you will get tips on how to hire each of the following vendors. Depending on your vision for your wedding you may or may not need to hire each of these categories.

Before you hire anybody or sign any contracts there are a few things that need to be done. Set your budget. Your budget will guide you along the way to keep your wallet in check. Next, decide what is most important to you and allocate more to the areas that are most important to you. Personalize your budgeting sheet before you begin your planning so you know what you have to spend in each of the following categories. You can download a sample Chicago wedding budget here to give you an idea of what percentages to allocate to each area and how much you can expect to spend based on the average cost of a Chicago wedding.

Also, read up throughout the newsletters for tips on how to hire Chicago wedding professionals!

  • Planner/Coordinator
  • Gown Shop
  • Tuxedo Sales/Rentals
  • Make-Up Artist
  • Hair Stylist
  • Ceremony Venue
  • Ceremony Musicians
  • Ceremony Officiator
  • Reception Venue
  • Cocktail Musicians
  • Caterer
  • Baker
  • Florist
  • Limo/Transportation
  • Decor
  • Invitations/Stationery
  • Photographer
  • Videographer
  • Linen Company
  • DJ and/or Band
  • Hotel (out of town accommodations)
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So Many to Consider

Who will be involved in your wedding day?
By Patti
Herioux
With Love
, Event Planner
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The average wedding will have 169 people in attendance.* Where your wedding numbers will fall is yet to be determined, but having an estimate of expected guests will play a major role in your budgeting and planning. Once you know who will be invited, you can assign special roles to guests you would like to honor. So, get out your pen and paper or start an excel spreadsheet! You have a party to plan!
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